If I asked you to draw a circle on an A4 paper, how would you do it?
How would you hold the paper, and how much of the page would you use?
Now imagine this question being asked in a crowded place, with pen and paper handed to you. Then imagine those papers being pinned to a wall. I believe you’d see many circles that, while similar, show subtle differences. Picture yourself looking at that wall, and then another question is asked:
“Which of these is not a circle?”
The answer is simple: none of them. That’s exactly what authenticity is. A group of different circles on a wall. Even if the space used and the way the paper is handled vary, the first thing you’ll notice when you look at that wall is a series of circles side by side.
Why is authenticity important?
Authenticity is one of the core traits that make us who we are. It’s a sign of our strengths and of the things that bring us joy. That’s why the world of art is so vibrant and inclusive. Artists who express themselves in different ways offer a rich and colorful world to those who engage with their work.
But one of the most important aspects is how these artists become recognized. Just like in every area of life, those who discover and remain true to their authentic voice are the ones who stand out.
This is also what distinguishes people from one another and adds richness to the bigger picture. If we were all the same, we’d become part of a dull, monochromatic whole. No one around us would stand out, and we’d all walk the same path in the same way. That path, in turn, would have limited potential for growth.
But in a picture where different paths exist, a sense of curiosity and exploration emerges. When you see something different on a nearby road, you get the chance to revise your own map. Maybe you’ll add new trees or take something away.
To me, that’s a beautiful kind of freedom.
How does one become truly authentic?
By getting to know yourself better. I know this is a short and simple answer, but it truly captures the essence. Knowing what brings you joy and what you’re naturally good at is deeply valuable. Of course, these things can change over time, but even the intention to know yourself better is. Asking yourself questions like these helps reveal how you’re growing and evolving:
- “What have I been enjoying doing lately?”
- “Which of my skills can I use more in this area?”
- “Which of the skills I have do I use the most these days?”
Self-compassion and awareness will serve you more than you might expect.
Serra İspahani 